Posts Tagged ‘Positive Living’

The Longevity Of Positivity

What our world needs now, more than ever, are positive role models and the continued dispersion of the positivity philosophy.Too many live their lives in a constant and unending cycle of despair and regret.This does not have to be so.

By simply changing our perspective we can gain a whole new slant on the world in which we live and on the future that lies before each and every one of us.

The world is as you see it. Just like the person who looks at a glass of water that they declare is half full or half empty. It just depends on which way you perceive it and how you respond with your mind and your mouth.

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The Guide Laws

My youngest daughter recently came home from a sleepover with the Girl Guide’s group that she is part of. She seemed to have a great night indulging pizza, lollies, movies and a minimal amount of sleep at the Girl Guide’s hut.

When she was first recognised officially as a Girl Guide she was proud to be one. One of the momentos that she brought home was a beautifully presented list of ‘The Guide Laws’.

I was so impressed with them that I have included them in this ezine. I believe that if every human being followed this simple set of laws, we would all be living in paradise…

1. A guide is loyal and can be trusted.

Loyalty and trust are essential ingredients to any successful relationship. When you work for, or with, someone, give them the very best that you can offer.

2. A guide is helpful.

‘Happy to help’ should be our motto. Walk the extra mile and smile the extra smile.

3. A guide is polite and considerate.

It doesn’t take any effort to be polite, to show integrity and to be thoughtful in your actions.

4. A guide is friendly and a sister to all guides.

To find friends, show yourself friendly. Be a brother or a sister to those you come in contact with by showing respect to all; no matter what station of life they find themselves in.

5. A guide is kind to animals and respects all living things.

Take care of the world and the world will take care of you. Those people, in my land, who carelessly throw cigarette butts out of their car windows and smoke in public places, where there are children walking around, have no respect for the health or the welfare of the society they live in.

CARE FOR THE WORLD & THE WORLD WILL CARE FOR YOU

6. A guide is obedient.

Obey the laws that are in place, for they are there not to restrict you but to guide you. The law of gravity may be true to keep us on the ground but there is another law that enables us to soar - the law of lift. Look for the laws, live by them and then use them to your advantage.

7. A guide has courage and is cheerful in all difficulties.

Courage is not the absence of fear. It is the ability to take action even when fear is present. And a cheerful disposition will bring sunshine to the lives of those whom you come in contact with.

8. A guide makes good use of her time.

Time management is of key importance to any successful life. Don’t be pushed around by the tyranny of the urgent. Make a list of what needs to be done, prioritise from least to the most important and then do.

9. A guide takes care of her own possessions and those of other people.

I can soon tell you about the character of an individual by two things: the way they care for their shoes and the way they care for the inside of their car. People who care for their possessions will care for those that belong to others.

10. A guide is self-controlled in all she thinks, says and does.

Self-control is the fruit of a life that is rooted in strength. Control your tongue and you can control the whole person. Knowing when to speak and when not to are honourable qualities.

CONTROL YOUR LIFE WITH SELF-CONTROL

Motivational Quote:  Guide your life by this simple guide: do to others what you would have them do to you.

Positive Light In A Dark Negative World

I recently took my family to Sydney to experience the New Year’s celebrations. With the Sydney Harbour Bridge as the major centrepiece to the magical firework experience, our eyes feasted on the colours and our ears delighted to the sounds of a spectacular fireworks display that ushered the millions who either watched the event live or by television into yet another brand new year. Though I must say that to see it live was an exhilarating experience.

As part of our time in Sydney we also decided to spend our last day in ‘The Rocks’ area of the city. And within that historical area we stumbled across an art gallery called the ‘Touch of Mandela’. To our surprise and utter delight we discovered within the gallery a limited edition of sketches and original lithographs created and designed by Nelson Mandela.

Nelson Mandela, winner of the Nobel Peace Prize, and recognised as one of the world’s greatest statesmen, spent 27 years imprisoned as a direct result of his efforts to ensure the freedom of all men and women in South Africa. Eighteen of those years were spent in brutal conditions on Robben Island: an ex-naval base that would later become a penal colony and dumping ground for those the South African government labelled dissidents.

Released on 11 February 1990, Nelson Mandela left Robben Island to become not only the president of the recently unbanned African National Congress, but also, on 10 May 1994, the first black president of South Africa.

The ‘Touch of Mandela’ Gallery - http://www.touchofmandela.com.au - features the artworks by the world’s most famous pensioner and Aids activist.

The artworks celebrate a time of struggle - exemplary of an icon who can reach out to a nation to give hope, freedom and above all, a legacy to be enjoyed by all.

“Today when I look at Robben Island,” Mandela states, “I see it as a celebration of the struggle and a symbol of the finest qualities of the human spirit, rather than as a monument to the brutal tyranny and oppression of apartheid. It is true that Robben Island was once a place of darkness, but out of that darkness has come a wonderful brightness, a light so powerful that it could not be hidden behind prison walls … I have attempted to colour the island sketches in ways that reflect the positive light in which I view it.”

He adds, “This is what I would like to share with people around the world … that even the most fantastic dreams can be achieved if we are prepared to endure life’s challenges.”

Reflecting on the latest Tsunami disaster in Asia and as I once again considered this great man’s struggle, I wanted to bring to you something that would bring hope in a time of great world despair, light in a dark period of our world’s history and paint a fresh, positive colourful statement onto the canvas of your personal world that is so often splashed by a brush of dark negativity.

So what lessons can be drawn from this great man?

Let me share my interpretation of FIVE powerful points that I have gained from studying Nelson Mandela’s life; the man who knew suffering and deprivation and yet attained his dream in his lifetime. He forged a fresh and new destiny for millions in his own country and continues to inspire billions throughout the entire world.

1. Fantastic Dreams Can Be Achieved If We Are Prepared To Endure Life’s Challenges

It’s the stuff of Moses leading the Israelites out of Egypt and into the Promised Land. “IMPOSSIBLE!” is the resounding word sprouted amongst those who are the oppressors. And yet the seed of a dream transfixed in the depths of the heart of one man can transform an entire society. It happened thousands of years ago and it happened in South Africa at the end of the 20th century. And it will happen in Tibet. It will also happen again and again in lands where people are oppressed, as long as there is at least one person who is willing to dream. For there is no oppression that can hold back the fulfilment of a person’s dream for freedom.

What do you do with a man who stated at his 1961 treason trial: “I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities…if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.” That one speech alone heralded the demise of his oppressors. And as surely as this great man’s dreams were fulfilled, so too can your dreams come to pass if you are prepared to endure. Remember, it quite often takes twenty years to become an overnight success.

2. View The Negative In A Positive Light

There is no escaping the negative. However, by viewing them in a positive light, the power of every negative and its oppressive hold over your life can be dissipated in an instant. That is why in his Robben Island Series; Nelson Mandela has used bright colours that “reflect the positive light” in which he viewed his experience of 18 year’s imprisonment in that place.

And as W. Clement Stone and Napoleon Hill wrote in their book ‘Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude’: “Every adversity has the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit.” The harder we look into the shell of a negative experience we will soon discover a pearl of great value.

3. Never Take Another Human Being And Their Friendship Or Their Love For Granted

“The courtyard was an unfriendly, empty and barren place. It was a sombre reminder of where I was.” recalls Mandela. “From the beginning of my imprisonment I asked to start a garden in the courtyard, to change this sad looking place. After years of refusing my request, we were finally given permission to plant a small garden on a narrow patch of earth against a wall. Being able to plant and nurture life in this prison courtyard offered me a sense of freedom and satisfaction that is hard to put into words even today. A garden is one of the few things in prison that one could control.”

“A powerful memory that I have is of a beautiful tomato that I cozed from tiny seed to tender seedling to a strong plant that gave plump bright red juicy tomatoes, but despite my efforts to plant began to wither and die and nothing we did would heal it. When it died I took it carefully from the soil, washed its roots and carried it in a corner of the garden. It would again remind me of the hopelessness I felt at being unable to nourish other relationships in my life. It made me realise the beauty, simplicity and sacred value of family, of loved ones or friends. I swore to myself that I would never take another human being and their friendship or their love for granted ever again.”

4. Persistence Pays Off

“In 1977 forced manual labour was increased after we maintained a two year go-slow strike. We asked to do something more useful with our day instead of the monotony of mining lime and stone from the quarries. This action however robbed us of the opportunity to exercise, and after much effort we convinced the wardens to allow us to convert the courtyard into a tennis court. Prior to this, the prisoners were marched round and round the courtyard for half an hour every day.”

“Our persistence paid off and we painted the cement courtyard surface to create a traditional tennis court layout. Being able to exercise one’s mind and body through play was immensely freeing. Playing tennis and attending to my gardening became my two favourite hobbies. It was a strange sensation enjoying such civilised hobbies in such an uncivilised place. It caused me to reflect the strange and perverse nature of opportunities where they wrongly thought that one people’s freedom could only be enjoyed at the expense and oppression of others.”

Persist, persist, and persist.

5. A Quest For Righteousness Can Never Be Repressed

In Mandela’s Struggle Series he drew a series of hands. Mandela says, “I drew hands because they are powerful instruments. Hands can hurt or heal, punish or uplift. They can also be bound. But a quest for righteousness can never be repressed.”

And so too is this true for each and every one of us. Choose to do what is right and use your hands for that which seeks only the good of others. Serve others, always showing them love and respect and you will reap the positive benefits that will arise from your actions.

May your hands be giving hands, ever seeking to give only that which is best to others. For in your giving you will be the recipient of so much more. Pursue your own quest for righteousness in all of your daily affairs, both in personal interaction and in all your business dealings.

Motivational Quote: Darkness’ power is always pierced by a slither of light called hope.